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Old 05-27-2010, 03:20 AM
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Default Childish Speech/Pronunciation?

Hey everyone. I'm in my late teens and I feel my speech is pretty childish in terms of pronunciation. I really don't know if I'm being too critical of myself or not. I know voices always sound worse on recordings as well, but I've had people tell me that I have some sort of accent although they couldn't tell me what it was, among other hints. I also have an issue with stumbling over my words, which can get embarrassing on stage and in more casual conversations.

So, can anyone help? Do you know of any exercises I can perform to improve my speech so I sound a bit more mature and professional? I would really appreciate it. Thanks.

Here's a short clip I made to give you an idea of what I sound like. It's not my worst but you can sort of hear what I'm talking about.

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Old 06-24-2010, 06:42 AM
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Default Re: Childish Speech/Pronunciation?

Unfortunately I can't hear your clip as I'm lacking speakers and headphones - however, what you're talking about may be improved just by practicing.

You could try speaking to yourself in the mirror - casual conversations, formal speeches, poetry. Be critical of yourself but don't give yourself a hard time - be constructive. Your speaking will improve. Once your a little more confident, try your new style with real people - friends and family.

As for a "childish" voice - I know I haven't heard the clip but I'm sure your voice is fine. People's voices vary widely - there are lots and lots of different pitches and tones, so it's really nothing to worry about. I'm sure no one else would notice.

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Old 06-28-2010, 05:09 AM
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Default Re: Childish Speech/Pronunciation?

Hi,

I think the key to being comfortable with your voice and public speaking is practice practice practice. There are some voice coaching tools that may help you.
Check out Voice improvement, voice training, voice training software, public speaking from Nancy Daniels - Voice Dynamic, there are some free tools there as well.
And, please, don't worry about any accent. We all have accents (North, South, East and West). Your accent is simply part of the character of your voice. Let it be part of your style.
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Old 08-17-2010, 08:01 PM
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A World Champion Of Public Speaking suggests you acknowledge anything that might distract the audience from your message right up front, and then move on.

For example an Asian speaker with a strong accent addressing an English audience says "Mr Chairman, Fellow Guests and anyone who cannot understand my accent ..."

Make light of it with a funny remark.

Most importantly, don't let it stop you. There's tons of people who can't speak at all. You're one of the lucky ones who can.
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